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Pyke build beyond third item
2023.06.06 18:48 Dedicationism Pyke build beyond third item
As far as I understand, Pyke builds Ability Haste and AD. I went to check all the items, below are the potential one.
Anyhow, I always do Yoummu, Draktharr and Edge. The game usually ends here or before so I don’t understand the efficiency of different forth items.
So, questions: 1. I guess Serpent if a lot shielding, Mortal if a lot healing, then end the build with Guardian Angel? Serpent has very good stat, should I just go for it if I don’t know what to get? 2. When to build Death Dance and Malmortious? Pyke play style is combo, run to heal, come back for another combo or execute. I am usually not the one tanking damage. Do I build it when enemy target me with burst damage? 3. How does Serylda passive proc on Pyke? Damaging active ability? Empowered attack? I don’t think Pyke has any? 4. Passive question: Stores 10% (+0.35 orange icon) of damage taken from champions, increased to 50% (+0.65% orang icon) if there are two or more visible enemy champions nearby. What is that orange icon? It looks familiar to the one on item with armor penetration passive.
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- Yoummu Ghost blade (50 AD & 15 AH)
- Dusk blade of Draktharr (55 AD & 10 AH)
- Edge of the Night (53.6 AD)
- Mortal Reminder (45 AD)
- Serpent fang (50 AD & 10 AH)
- Death Dance (35 AD, 15 AH & 40 armor)
- Malmortius (45 AD, 10 AH & 45 MR)
- Serylda Grudge (40 AD & 15 AH)
- Guardian Angel (40 AD & 40 armor)
Anyhow, I always do Yoummu, Draktharr and Edge. The game usually ends here or before so I don’t understand the efficiency of different forth items.
So, questions: 1. I guess Serpent if a lot shielding, Mortal if a lot healing, then end the build with Guardian Angel? Serpent has very good stat, should I just go for it if I don’t know what to get? 2. When to build Death Dance and Malmortious? Pyke play style is combo, run to heal, come back for another combo or execute. I am usually not the one tanking damage. Do I build it when enemy target me with burst damage? 3. How does Serylda passive proc on Pyke? Damaging active ability? Empowered attack? I don’t think Pyke has any? 4. Passive question: Stores 10% (+0.35 orange icon) of damage taken from champions, increased to 50% (+0.65% orang icon) if there are two or more visible enemy champions nearby. What is that orange icon? It looks familiar to the one on item with armor penetration passive.
2023.06.06 18:47 King_Jar12 Angry Shooter
Was playing at Casino Arizona yesterday and had a shitty don’t player. When I got to the table, guy was rolling and he hit his point. The don’t lost about $300. I buy in and the shooter is doing well. Hitting all the inside numbers. I start making money. Then the don’t player throws a late bet right at the shooter and he goes out. The don’t is smiling. Two more shooters PSO, then the don’t player changes to the pass line. I have no faith in him, but play 5/5/5 on ATS and start with a $10 working 9. He hits the nine coming out. I move my bet to a $12 6/8. Then he goes on pretty good roll. From $10 I get to $150 across. He hits one side and I regress to $54 across. I get back to 25/50/60 across by the time he hits them all. The best part is he hit the 10 and traveled his don’t come. He proceeded to place odds of $400 - $500. He then hit his point and got greedy. He took all his pass line winnings and added it to the 10 dc. He ended up betting everything he had ~$900. But had to pull some back because he didn’t have a pass line. He took back the change to make a pass line bet. He then rolls a 10 on the come out!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 A couple of us cheer!! He stands there in disbelief and continues to agree roll. He hits a few numbers and then makes the 10. Finally, on the come out he hits the 2 and we hit the all. He’s in disbelief.. We all get paid and he doesn’t. He passes the dice and walks off.
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2023.06.06 18:47 Traditional_Air_1816 About "Brazilian Descendants" And People Born Here, But Lived Out Most Of Their Life
I am Brazilian and in this sub i saw many people come here to say that they are Brazilian, born in brazil but lived most of their life out or having brazilian parents or one brazilian parent, but born outside of brazil and living all their life out, i really dont want to sound rude, i just wanna share what most of brazilians think when i ask them in real life, about these Kind of people
To most of us Brazilians, if you lived most of your Life in another country you are not really brazilian, is just hard to us to think that someone that lived most of ther lives in rich countries, never will undestand what many brazilians pass trought their lives here, and they come to us like we are neighbors, most of people i asked said this
People also said that if you think our culture resumes to samba, feijoada, football, sex all the time, never focusing on work, Rio de janeiro, amazon, favela, oversexualized women, we all look the same etc, Catholicism, you are not really brazilian to most of us, just another foreginer, this really piss off many people here
Look most of brazilians would be fine with you and another "brazilian descendants" saying that you are brazilian if you didnt fall in these categories, and dont resume our country with stereotypes created mostly by foreginers, but unfortunately most of you aways fall in that categories
Being brazilian, is not just a generic culture that you can 1 time per month pretend you really care, Being brazilian is living here, undestanding how we feel, how we speak, how we talk with each other, our Slangs, walk in brazilian Streets, live in brazilian style houses, drive brazilian cars, watch brazilian TV, watch brazilian YouTubers, sing brazilian lullabies, hear our musical genres, suffer what many of us suffer everyday, understanding this, etc and etc,
All these small things make you brazilian, hope you undestand what im saying
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To most of us Brazilians, if you lived most of your Life in another country you are not really brazilian, is just hard to us to think that someone that lived most of ther lives in rich countries, never will undestand what many brazilians pass trought their lives here, and they come to us like we are neighbors, most of people i asked said this
People also said that if you think our culture resumes to samba, feijoada, football, sex all the time, never focusing on work, Rio de janeiro, amazon, favela, oversexualized women, we all look the same etc, Catholicism, you are not really brazilian to most of us, just another foreginer, this really piss off many people here
Look most of brazilians would be fine with you and another "brazilian descendants" saying that you are brazilian if you didnt fall in these categories, and dont resume our country with stereotypes created mostly by foreginers, but unfortunately most of you aways fall in that categories
Being brazilian, is not just a generic culture that you can 1 time per month pretend you really care, Being brazilian is living here, undestanding how we feel, how we speak, how we talk with each other, our Slangs, walk in brazilian Streets, live in brazilian style houses, drive brazilian cars, watch brazilian TV, watch brazilian YouTubers, sing brazilian lullabies, hear our musical genres, suffer what many of us suffer everyday, understanding this, etc and etc,
All these small things make you brazilian, hope you undestand what im saying
2023.06.06 18:47 quarterlymaple I (26F) want to move for work. Breakup with my bf (26F) seems inevitable
I recently started a new job where I am expected to be on site every couple weeks. I work from home the rest of the time but I'm realizing that, after working from home for 3 years, I am ready for a change and enjoy working in the office for a ton of reasons.
My bf of 1.5 years knows that I would need to work on-site to continue to pursue this job after my contract ends. When I told him this, he said it would be really advantageous to have this employer on my resume (implying I can get a job elsewhere). This rubbed me the wrong way because he has been so focused on his career over the past year, why can't I focus on mine? I love the work that I'm doing and look forward to it. I'm paid incredibly well and it's the opportunity of a lifetime for me.
I'm not sure what is the best way to break it to him, or when. I won't have the savings to move for another couple weeks. We also have a lease on an apartment that doesn't end for another 8 months so any advice is welcome.
My bf has said he doesn't want to. What if he changes his mind and says he wants to move with me?
I love him dearly, things aren't bad but I'm ready to move on for a variety of reasons including personal differences. We've talked a lot about our future and how he wants a family and to build a house together but I want to focus on my career and travel and I'm really uncertain about having kids and he doesn't really like traveling. He's really great in a lot of ways but I don't know if I can see myself settling in the near future.
I want to end things with him and move on in the best way possible for both of us. He's going to be heartbroken and completely blindsided and I'm feeling guilty and anxious thinking about it.
Any advice is appreciated. Thanks so much.
TL;DR i want to move for work and end things with my bf the gentlest way possible. not sure when or how.
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My bf of 1.5 years knows that I would need to work on-site to continue to pursue this job after my contract ends. When I told him this, he said it would be really advantageous to have this employer on my resume (implying I can get a job elsewhere). This rubbed me the wrong way because he has been so focused on his career over the past year, why can't I focus on mine? I love the work that I'm doing and look forward to it. I'm paid incredibly well and it's the opportunity of a lifetime for me.
I'm not sure what is the best way to break it to him, or when. I won't have the savings to move for another couple weeks. We also have a lease on an apartment that doesn't end for another 8 months so any advice is welcome.
My bf has said he doesn't want to. What if he changes his mind and says he wants to move with me?
I love him dearly, things aren't bad but I'm ready to move on for a variety of reasons including personal differences. We've talked a lot about our future and how he wants a family and to build a house together but I want to focus on my career and travel and I'm really uncertain about having kids and he doesn't really like traveling. He's really great in a lot of ways but I don't know if I can see myself settling in the near future.
I want to end things with him and move on in the best way possible for both of us. He's going to be heartbroken and completely blindsided and I'm feeling guilty and anxious thinking about it.
Any advice is appreciated. Thanks so much.
TL;DR i want to move for work and end things with my bf the gentlest way possible. not sure when or how.
2023.06.06 18:47 Effective-Bed1718 Wrote a blurb for my book - would u read this?
Even though there’s aliens and stuff in this I’ve been told it leans more into the space fantasy genre. There’s a hard magic system and tropes that lean more into fantasy too like gods Most of the series takes place on Earth as well. I’ve been working on this thing for like 7 years and I think it’s time for some fresh eyes on the synopsis 😅
Superstition and conspiracy sparks in the city of Lifeblood when radicalised young brute Rhydian Morgans is detained, having just arrived from beyond the Outer Wall. He harbours information that could spark a war across the galaxy. Rhydian is proud to call himself a Crimson Dawn. He believes that eradicating Cartaxians - a previously hostile Alien race - is the best way to ensure Humanity’s survival. When torture and questioning barely dents Rhydian’s resolve, he is sent to the Axxa Court as a last resort - a prison specifically designed to break only the worst inmates. Rhydian is prepared to spend his life in there if it means protecting this info, but the situation becomes messy when he finds himself in the company of a friend he’d previously thought killed, Jett. With this revelation, hazy memories of a past he has suppressed begin to haunt him. Revealing what he knows to the authorities will guarantee safety for himself and Jett, but will cost his chance at victory against Cartaxians.
Fifteen year old Cartaxian, Leo, refuses to look back at a childhood savaged by war. However, their plans for an easy living are compromised when witnessing a brutal homicide thrusts them in the middle of a nation-wide conspiracy. They have been tasked to stop this escalating before it can be revealed to the public. He’s assigned to a dismissive soldier for protection, and an unhinged aviator who's married to the bottle. As if his company wasn't stress inducing enough, rumour has it there are those outside the city walls who want to slaughter every last one of Leo's kind…and he's headed straight for them.
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Superstition and conspiracy sparks in the city of Lifeblood when radicalised young brute Rhydian Morgans is detained, having just arrived from beyond the Outer Wall. He harbours information that could spark a war across the galaxy. Rhydian is proud to call himself a Crimson Dawn. He believes that eradicating Cartaxians - a previously hostile Alien race - is the best way to ensure Humanity’s survival. When torture and questioning barely dents Rhydian’s resolve, he is sent to the Axxa Court as a last resort - a prison specifically designed to break only the worst inmates. Rhydian is prepared to spend his life in there if it means protecting this info, but the situation becomes messy when he finds himself in the company of a friend he’d previously thought killed, Jett. With this revelation, hazy memories of a past he has suppressed begin to haunt him. Revealing what he knows to the authorities will guarantee safety for himself and Jett, but will cost his chance at victory against Cartaxians.
Fifteen year old Cartaxian, Leo, refuses to look back at a childhood savaged by war. However, their plans for an easy living are compromised when witnessing a brutal homicide thrusts them in the middle of a nation-wide conspiracy. They have been tasked to stop this escalating before it can be revealed to the public. He’s assigned to a dismissive soldier for protection, and an unhinged aviator who's married to the bottle. As if his company wasn't stress inducing enough, rumour has it there are those outside the city walls who want to slaughter every last one of Leo's kind…and he's headed straight for them.
2023.06.06 18:47 Active-Internal5039 If my (f24) bf (m27) doesnt want to end things but is also unwilling to compromise, then what?
I have been together with my bf for over a year and a half now. The start of our reltionship was unconventional just like most relationships that start off a dating/hook up app are. My bf at the time was recently seperated from his wife of almost 5 years for 3 months when I met him and I was still dealing with the truama and heartbreak of my first relationship 8 months prior.
When we went on our first date i think we both realized we got along really well and really liked eachother but we agreed in the beginning that we both werent looking for anything serious... until i started seeing him multiple times a week and started spending the night everytime we hung out. A few months later I had ended up getting really sick and quarantined myself for 2 weeks, and in those 2 weeks we were playing games online together every night, he would message me he missed me, he told me one night during those 2 weeks that i was 'his person'. So obviously from that point the dynamic of our relationship had shifted and things that hadnt bothered me before now started to.
One big thing is that my bf likes to go out every weekend with his friends, he really didnt have friends when him and his ex had moved to the area and once they seperated, he started going out and making friends and then it became his ritual every weekend. I didnt care about that, he deserves to have fun and at that time it wasnt really my scene anyway. Until i saw how much fun he and his friends would have and the cool experiences he would go to. Night art festivals with fire breathing dancers. Nightime pool dj parties. Clubs with cool themes and concepts. Silent discos. I started to get that fear that i was missing out on my life too. I started to want to be involved but when i brought up the idea of inviting me out some nights he got uncomfortable at the idea. He likes when we're together but he also needed a life outside me too so he didnt feel like he was jumping out of one relationship into the other. He needed to feel free and bringing me with would be an acknowledgement of commitment and he wasnt ready for that yet. Since this was ealier on in the relationship (probably 4 months in) and i wanted to be respectful of his life i let it go and started trying to go out by myself to find friends of my own and start having my own experiences but people are fucking crazy ngl. Some attempts i made to make friends resulted in funny stories to tell other people but also had discouraged me to keep trying. So i conceded and just went back to what i was doing before but the jealousy slowly built over the course of our time together.
I know everyones healing processes are different byt after a year of being consistently together i decided maybe i could bring up the idea again but as a comprimise and I had texted him this: "I love you so much. Youre so patient and caring and its really helped me feel more comfortable with my emotions and expressing them to you. I feel safe to talk.
I also want to preface that Im perfectly fine with you going out every weekend you going out doesnt bother me at all. I dont want you to think i dont like it cause i really dont mind.
what does cause me to be sad is that some nights when you go out it just looks and sounds like a lot of fun. It sometimes hurts my feelings when you guys will make plans right in front of me and i know im not invited too
Im def not the kind of person that goes out every weekend and I like that you have your time for just you and friends, its perfectly healthy to have seperate lives!! But being able to party and be loose with you sounds like fun some nights. I just feel sad and left out and that im not a fun friend to let your guard down around.
Is there some way we can compromise where you still have your freedom but every once in a while i can come with you guys on a friday night?"
This was my first true attempt at a comprimise but he still has the same reservations he had the first time.
So again i conceded, but this time the anger and jealousy were now constantly there. I would get hurt everytime i saw clothes that he would wear on weekends. I would get upset when i saw his friends. I would get uspet when he would start to get excited that the weekend was getting close knowing i was just an outsider looking in.
Another 4 months had gone from that point and we finally had our first big blowout. Not over the weekends or anything else but over something really small and it wasnt a huge fight either but it was enough for us to realize that i wasnt okay and neither was he. I took a couple of weeks to be by myself and when we came together we had a really big talk over everything. I told him that I wasnt interested in being an addition anymore. If he wanted his seperate friends and places, thats fine, but would it hurt if just some night it could be just us? Going to new places? That way i can get to go out with him like ive been wanting and he wont feel like im trying to insert myself into all aspects of his life. He kind of disagreed again but for different reasons. He said due to my truama with my ex hed feel like we wouldnt have fun going out because id be too busy watching him to make sure hes not checking out other women to have a good time.
I said "well are you the type of person that would openly disrespect me like that in front of my face and give me a reason to behave like that?"
He said "no"
So i said "then its not fair for me to be penalized for something i havent done yet. Why cant i have the opportunity to show you that I wouldnt do that and also gain the opportunity for you to show me that you wouldnt to that either?"
I could tell he still wanted to say no so i finished my piece by just telling him to think about it. If he couldnt give me a better reason to say no then there was no reason for us to not go with the plan.
That was 2 months ago. He ended up never bringing up an 'answer', i knew it was going to be no in the end so i just gave up.
I decided to get a 2nd job on the weekends to make some extra money and to help pass the feelings of loneliness. Its helped because my new coworkers are so nice and working nights with them fulfills the social need ive been searching for. My bf started taking a medication too that he'll be on for 6 months and during that time he cant have a drop of alcohol or else it could really mess up his liver so he stopped going out on weekends too but the pain of it all still sits heavy on my mind. Hes my best friend but i feel like im being treated less than a friend. I love him so much and i know every relationships have their ups and downs and theyre 80% and 20% but i feel like the 20% im missing out is too much. Im really starting to want a more conventional relationship with him after being together for so long and i guess that our biggest issue
He also has an affinity for saying since he wasnt looking for anything when we first met he doesnt want to have any power over me to hurt me. I get where hes coming from with this, but at this point when he says it, hes using it as a scapegoat to absolve himself of guilt for when he does things that inevitably hurt me. In the beginning I understood what he was saying depsite thinking it was a little unfair because at that point I didnt want to let him have anypower over me too, but that was a year and a half ago, that statement.
The reason I need help and advice is because of this most recent text from us here:
He said "I know you wanted to hang out today but I think you should take time to think about how we should go about things because we just keep kicking the can down the road. It's like "oh hey I want this. But I know you don't want this. Yeah. Okay anyways I'll see you tomorrow" and I get not wanting to switch things up but it's not gonna make either of us happy in the long run"
So i replied "Tbh i have thought about it and continue to think about it. I know what i want and i think im more just coming to terms with understanding and realizing what i want i might never get or probably wont see for a long time. I just dont know what the best course of action is because comproming on my end has been hurting me a lot. But i dont know what or if youre willing to compromise anything. I think its hard coming to terms wth what it means to actsully be incompatible. I just dont know how to feel everytime you tell me i need to take time to think about things."
So he said "Well. It's not that I think you need time to think about things. It's that we can't just keep kicking the can down the road"
And i left it at thag because I just dont know what to do. If i bring up ending things he tells we both dont want that, and yeah, i love the guy, we've talked about when we're both ready having a family and a house together. He even brought up the idea of matching tatoos of a character for the video game we played together from when i was sick and he told me i was his person, and that coming from him felt so sincere and significant because thats a big commitment right there in my opinion. Of course i dont want to end things but if hes unwilling to compromise then what? I know im partially in the wrong because this is soemthing hes wanted to keep seperate from the beginning but for me being able to go out with your partner helps build emotional connections and experiences I feel like.
I dont know. Since this is my 2nd relationship and the only relationship ive been in since being of age to drink and really go out I feel like its important to me to have those experiences with him.
Please help reddit. Im sorry if this was so rambly and long. This is my first time posting and i know there are a lot of sincere and genuine people who want to help.
Tldr; after being together for a year and a half im starting to want a more conventional relationship. Ive suggested comprimises to help with our situation but he wants things to remain as they are and in the end its hurting us both. When i bring up ending things he just syas that isnt what either of us want. But if he doesnt want to break up and he doesnt want to compromise, then what?
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When we went on our first date i think we both realized we got along really well and really liked eachother but we agreed in the beginning that we both werent looking for anything serious... until i started seeing him multiple times a week and started spending the night everytime we hung out. A few months later I had ended up getting really sick and quarantined myself for 2 weeks, and in those 2 weeks we were playing games online together every night, he would message me he missed me, he told me one night during those 2 weeks that i was 'his person'. So obviously from that point the dynamic of our relationship had shifted and things that hadnt bothered me before now started to.
One big thing is that my bf likes to go out every weekend with his friends, he really didnt have friends when him and his ex had moved to the area and once they seperated, he started going out and making friends and then it became his ritual every weekend. I didnt care about that, he deserves to have fun and at that time it wasnt really my scene anyway. Until i saw how much fun he and his friends would have and the cool experiences he would go to. Night art festivals with fire breathing dancers. Nightime pool dj parties. Clubs with cool themes and concepts. Silent discos. I started to get that fear that i was missing out on my life too. I started to want to be involved but when i brought up the idea of inviting me out some nights he got uncomfortable at the idea. He likes when we're together but he also needed a life outside me too so he didnt feel like he was jumping out of one relationship into the other. He needed to feel free and bringing me with would be an acknowledgement of commitment and he wasnt ready for that yet. Since this was ealier on in the relationship (probably 4 months in) and i wanted to be respectful of his life i let it go and started trying to go out by myself to find friends of my own and start having my own experiences but people are fucking crazy ngl. Some attempts i made to make friends resulted in funny stories to tell other people but also had discouraged me to keep trying. So i conceded and just went back to what i was doing before but the jealousy slowly built over the course of our time together.
I know everyones healing processes are different byt after a year of being consistently together i decided maybe i could bring up the idea again but as a comprimise and I had texted him this: "I love you so much. Youre so patient and caring and its really helped me feel more comfortable with my emotions and expressing them to you. I feel safe to talk.
I also want to preface that Im perfectly fine with you going out every weekend you going out doesnt bother me at all. I dont want you to think i dont like it cause i really dont mind.
what does cause me to be sad is that some nights when you go out it just looks and sounds like a lot of fun. It sometimes hurts my feelings when you guys will make plans right in front of me and i know im not invited too
Im def not the kind of person that goes out every weekend and I like that you have your time for just you and friends, its perfectly healthy to have seperate lives!! But being able to party and be loose with you sounds like fun some nights. I just feel sad and left out and that im not a fun friend to let your guard down around.
Is there some way we can compromise where you still have your freedom but every once in a while i can come with you guys on a friday night?"
This was my first true attempt at a comprimise but he still has the same reservations he had the first time.
So again i conceded, but this time the anger and jealousy were now constantly there. I would get hurt everytime i saw clothes that he would wear on weekends. I would get upset when i saw his friends. I would get uspet when he would start to get excited that the weekend was getting close knowing i was just an outsider looking in.
Another 4 months had gone from that point and we finally had our first big blowout. Not over the weekends or anything else but over something really small and it wasnt a huge fight either but it was enough for us to realize that i wasnt okay and neither was he. I took a couple of weeks to be by myself and when we came together we had a really big talk over everything. I told him that I wasnt interested in being an addition anymore. If he wanted his seperate friends and places, thats fine, but would it hurt if just some night it could be just us? Going to new places? That way i can get to go out with him like ive been wanting and he wont feel like im trying to insert myself into all aspects of his life. He kind of disagreed again but for different reasons. He said due to my truama with my ex hed feel like we wouldnt have fun going out because id be too busy watching him to make sure hes not checking out other women to have a good time.
I said "well are you the type of person that would openly disrespect me like that in front of my face and give me a reason to behave like that?"
He said "no"
So i said "then its not fair for me to be penalized for something i havent done yet. Why cant i have the opportunity to show you that I wouldnt do that and also gain the opportunity for you to show me that you wouldnt to that either?"
I could tell he still wanted to say no so i finished my piece by just telling him to think about it. If he couldnt give me a better reason to say no then there was no reason for us to not go with the plan.
That was 2 months ago. He ended up never bringing up an 'answer', i knew it was going to be no in the end so i just gave up.
I decided to get a 2nd job on the weekends to make some extra money and to help pass the feelings of loneliness. Its helped because my new coworkers are so nice and working nights with them fulfills the social need ive been searching for. My bf started taking a medication too that he'll be on for 6 months and during that time he cant have a drop of alcohol or else it could really mess up his liver so he stopped going out on weekends too but the pain of it all still sits heavy on my mind. Hes my best friend but i feel like im being treated less than a friend. I love him so much and i know every relationships have their ups and downs and theyre 80% and 20% but i feel like the 20% im missing out is too much. Im really starting to want a more conventional relationship with him after being together for so long and i guess that our biggest issue
He also has an affinity for saying since he wasnt looking for anything when we first met he doesnt want to have any power over me to hurt me. I get where hes coming from with this, but at this point when he says it, hes using it as a scapegoat to absolve himself of guilt for when he does things that inevitably hurt me. In the beginning I understood what he was saying depsite thinking it was a little unfair because at that point I didnt want to let him have anypower over me too, but that was a year and a half ago, that statement.
The reason I need help and advice is because of this most recent text from us here:
He said "I know you wanted to hang out today but I think you should take time to think about how we should go about things because we just keep kicking the can down the road. It's like "oh hey I want this. But I know you don't want this. Yeah. Okay anyways I'll see you tomorrow" and I get not wanting to switch things up but it's not gonna make either of us happy in the long run"
So i replied "Tbh i have thought about it and continue to think about it. I know what i want and i think im more just coming to terms with understanding and realizing what i want i might never get or probably wont see for a long time. I just dont know what the best course of action is because comproming on my end has been hurting me a lot. But i dont know what or if youre willing to compromise anything. I think its hard coming to terms wth what it means to actsully be incompatible. I just dont know how to feel everytime you tell me i need to take time to think about things."
So he said "Well. It's not that I think you need time to think about things. It's that we can't just keep kicking the can down the road"
And i left it at thag because I just dont know what to do. If i bring up ending things he tells we both dont want that, and yeah, i love the guy, we've talked about when we're both ready having a family and a house together. He even brought up the idea of matching tatoos of a character for the video game we played together from when i was sick and he told me i was his person, and that coming from him felt so sincere and significant because thats a big commitment right there in my opinion. Of course i dont want to end things but if hes unwilling to compromise then what? I know im partially in the wrong because this is soemthing hes wanted to keep seperate from the beginning but for me being able to go out with your partner helps build emotional connections and experiences I feel like.
I dont know. Since this is my 2nd relationship and the only relationship ive been in since being of age to drink and really go out I feel like its important to me to have those experiences with him.
Please help reddit. Im sorry if this was so rambly and long. This is my first time posting and i know there are a lot of sincere and genuine people who want to help.
Tldr; after being together for a year and a half im starting to want a more conventional relationship. Ive suggested comprimises to help with our situation but he wants things to remain as they are and in the end its hurting us both. When i bring up ending things he just syas that isnt what either of us want. But if he doesnt want to break up and he doesnt want to compromise, then what?
2023.06.06 18:46 sweetiefur Post-Graduation Existential Crisis
It's been less than a month since I graduated, pero yung iyak ko in the past few weeks about my career, mas malala na kesa sa breakup ko with my first boyfriend.
I graduated with Latin Honors, awarded as the Outstanding Graduate of our School/College, and was even a candidate for Valedictorian. I have been very active with extracurriculars; and was also awarded sa mga pabida moments ko.
Pero heto ako ngayon, tambay sa LinkedIn, VirtualStaff.ph, FB Groups for WFH, at marami pang iba.
___
My parents have always suggested two options during college years: Med or Law (actually, since Grade school? haha). Initially, I've considered both of these career paths naman since they're known to be lucrative, pero the more it was suggested to me, mas nagiging ayaw ko siyang kunin. Mas nawalan pa ako ng gana to take either of these career paths when I found out (from my cousin) na they didn't want me to take Masters (the only choice that I was sure of since 1st year). Ang bigat sa pakiramdam non, so what I did was to take both paths into consideration (for the sake). Pero as I continued my last 2 years in college, parang nawalan na ako ng gana to think about the future. I focused with my academics and extracurriculars and prayed to the universe that clarity on my career will follow.
Going back to these two career paths, I did pass in one (and only) Law school I've applied for, and my NMAT PR was acceptable despite not studying intensely. But this time, I feel like I have enough courage to fight for my masters. After several discussions, they agreed to it. So ayun, okay na!
Now here comes the ff problems:
(1) The specific masters' program that I have in mind is in Luzon. I'm from Mindanao, and I don't have relatives that live in the former. So that means I have to find a place to stay for atleast 2 years.
(2) I am expecting that my financial burdens will skyrocket. I don't want to depend on them for schooling kasi, especially since they didn't have this in their choices for me. So Dorm, Food, TOF = kargo ko. Sa dami ba namang utang + my brother will be enrolling for SHS, and ultimately, I have a my sister who's diagnosed with ASD so that entails a lot of medications and therapy sessions.
(3) I don't have enough savings. Kaya here I am now, job hunting. And right now, it's so hard :((
Should I be accepted, I have to fly around August or September.
All of these struggles make me think, "Mali ba tong desisyon ko?" Should I just have chosen a path they favored more over this? Should I just stay here?
Well, I think that's all for now. Gusto ko lang mailabas lahat ng mga to at 12 midnight.
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I graduated with Latin Honors, awarded as the Outstanding Graduate of our School/College, and was even a candidate for Valedictorian. I have been very active with extracurriculars; and was also awarded sa mga pabida moments ko.
Pero heto ako ngayon, tambay sa LinkedIn, VirtualStaff.ph, FB Groups for WFH, at marami pang iba.
___
My parents have always suggested two options during college years: Med or Law (actually, since Grade school? haha). Initially, I've considered both of these career paths naman since they're known to be lucrative, pero the more it was suggested to me, mas nagiging ayaw ko siyang kunin. Mas nawalan pa ako ng gana to take either of these career paths when I found out (from my cousin) na they didn't want me to take Masters (the only choice that I was sure of since 1st year). Ang bigat sa pakiramdam non, so what I did was to take both paths into consideration (for the sake). Pero as I continued my last 2 years in college, parang nawalan na ako ng gana to think about the future. I focused with my academics and extracurriculars and prayed to the universe that clarity on my career will follow.
Going back to these two career paths, I did pass in one (and only) Law school I've applied for, and my NMAT PR was acceptable despite not studying intensely. But this time, I feel like I have enough courage to fight for my masters. After several discussions, they agreed to it. So ayun, okay na!
Now here comes the ff problems:
(1) The specific masters' program that I have in mind is in Luzon. I'm from Mindanao, and I don't have relatives that live in the former. So that means I have to find a place to stay for atleast 2 years.
(2) I am expecting that my financial burdens will skyrocket. I don't want to depend on them for schooling kasi, especially since they didn't have this in their choices for me. So Dorm, Food, TOF = kargo ko. Sa dami ba namang utang + my brother will be enrolling for SHS, and ultimately, I have a my sister who's diagnosed with ASD so that entails a lot of medications and therapy sessions.
(3) I don't have enough savings. Kaya here I am now, job hunting. And right now, it's so hard :((
Should I be accepted, I have to fly around August or September.
All of these struggles make me think, "Mali ba tong desisyon ko?" Should I just have chosen a path they favored more over this? Should I just stay here?
Well, I think that's all for now. Gusto ko lang mailabas lahat ng mga to at 12 midnight.
2023.06.06 18:46 bcomar93 My interpretations of scripture is labeled heretic and I just can't fathom the traditional belief' morality
God knows who he makes. He knows who will go to Hell. Therefore he created a human knowing full well they will go to Hell.
"It is not against free will" - I know.
"It is the sinner's fault, not God's" - I know, that's what free will allows.
None of this answers the fact that he foreknew the sinner's fault. Him knowing it will be their destination - even though it isn't of his fault - he still created them.
Either God purposely created a man who will - by his own choice - go to Hell, or God didn't purposely create the man, or he was unaware of the choice at the time of creating that man.
Therefore, I supported Open Theism.
I also don't believe in ECT. I am a supporter for Conditional Immortality.
This stuff is all over Christian reddit forums, no need to discuss details.
I also haven't been convinced that the soul is inherently immortal.
God alone is immortal (1 Tim 6:16) and Adam chose knowledge over the tree of life (which gives man immortality as stated in Genesis). Jesus is the tree of life and only through him do we have eternal life - otherwise (insert conditional immortality)
I do not want to be a heretic. I don't want to teach false teachings, and in my discussions with my family these topics come out. However, believing anything other than the above makes me see God in a different light. I don't see how God can create people knowing that they go to Hell - not by his choice, I don't see how God could send someone to be tortured forever, and the list goes on with all the killing and acts that happen in the OT.
I've read countless answers to these things and it just doesn't make sense to me. The traditional view that people have these days doesn't seem to describe what I think of him. I feel like in my view he is more loving and just. But if I'm wrong and speak it out there - like I'm doing now - I'm a heretic.
I don't know what to do. I want God. I want the truth, but I don't see a truth declared with these topics - I see hundreds of theories, but the traditional claim heresy. I've felt like I just need to claim ignorance and follow, but I can't do that. These thoughts will also be there.
Idk what to do. Study it on my own or just follow blindly.
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"It is not against free will" - I know.
"It is the sinner's fault, not God's" - I know, that's what free will allows.
None of this answers the fact that he foreknew the sinner's fault. Him knowing it will be their destination - even though it isn't of his fault - he still created them.
Either God purposely created a man who will - by his own choice - go to Hell, or God didn't purposely create the man, or he was unaware of the choice at the time of creating that man.
Therefore, I supported Open Theism.
I also don't believe in ECT. I am a supporter for Conditional Immortality.
This stuff is all over Christian reddit forums, no need to discuss details.
I also haven't been convinced that the soul is inherently immortal.
God alone is immortal (1 Tim 6:16) and Adam chose knowledge over the tree of life (which gives man immortality as stated in Genesis). Jesus is the tree of life and only through him do we have eternal life - otherwise (insert conditional immortality)
I do not want to be a heretic. I don't want to teach false teachings, and in my discussions with my family these topics come out. However, believing anything other than the above makes me see God in a different light. I don't see how God can create people knowing that they go to Hell - not by his choice, I don't see how God could send someone to be tortured forever, and the list goes on with all the killing and acts that happen in the OT.
I've read countless answers to these things and it just doesn't make sense to me. The traditional view that people have these days doesn't seem to describe what I think of him. I feel like in my view he is more loving and just. But if I'm wrong and speak it out there - like I'm doing now - I'm a heretic.
I don't know what to do. I want God. I want the truth, but I don't see a truth declared with these topics - I see hundreds of theories, but the traditional claim heresy. I've felt like I just need to claim ignorance and follow, but I can't do that. These thoughts will also be there.
Idk what to do. Study it on my own or just follow blindly.
2023.06.06 18:46 Creapin-Angel All res and lifers or single res and lifers sc or res and mf or mf lifers sc
Sorry last post didn't make sense at all. That's what I get when I have had 3hrs sleep.
I am after small charms with res and life or a mixture of res,life and mf. But I don't want singular small charms for instance 7%mf by us self or life by its self ect.
Xbox - sc - nl
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I am after small charms with res and life or a mixture of res,life and mf. But I don't want singular small charms for instance 7%mf by us self or life by its self ect.
Xbox - sc - nl
2023.06.06 18:46 UXUI75 Unidentified Skin Issues: Comedones or Folliculitis?
HI
I have folliculitis of various sizes on my face, shoulders, and chest, often after shaving or using a trimmer. It really looks like acne. I can only treat it with BP or even sulfur, but BP works better. However, I have another type of bump that I can't identify. They are subcutaneous and never come to a head or get red and inflamed. They are the same color as my skin and smaller. I mainly get them around the temples and BHA or AHA don't seem to really get rid of them (Neutrogena Stubborn Acne Cleanser, Vichy Normaderm S.O.S paste or CeraVe Blemish Control Cleanser).
Could these be comedones or also folliculitis?
Thank you
https://preview.redd.it/1nur57frff4b1.jpg?width=1045&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a8257c063afab68d4155cd0c7a8872347f8aca96
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I have folliculitis of various sizes on my face, shoulders, and chest, often after shaving or using a trimmer. It really looks like acne. I can only treat it with BP or even sulfur, but BP works better. However, I have another type of bump that I can't identify. They are subcutaneous and never come to a head or get red and inflamed. They are the same color as my skin and smaller. I mainly get them around the temples and BHA or AHA don't seem to really get rid of them (Neutrogena Stubborn Acne Cleanser, Vichy Normaderm S.O.S paste or CeraVe Blemish Control Cleanser).
Could these be comedones or also folliculitis?
Thank you
https://preview.redd.it/1nur57frff4b1.jpg?width=1045&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=a8257c063afab68d4155cd0c7a8872347f8aca96
2023.06.06 18:46 Diamondedge365 Would you say the ultimate purpose of life is to find your place in the tribe?
As in our ultimate goal for anything and everything we do is in attempt to improve our social status?
When we eat right/workout, we are attempting to improve others opinions of us
When we buy nice things, we want people to envy us
When we study hard/work hard to find a good paying job, we are doing it an an attempt to earn more money, which increases others views of us
As you can see, all your motivations to do things all really comes down to finding your place in the tribe, aka “humanity”
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When we eat right/workout, we are attempting to improve others opinions of us
When we buy nice things, we want people to envy us
When we study hard/work hard to find a good paying job, we are doing it an an attempt to earn more money, which increases others views of us
As you can see, all your motivations to do things all really comes down to finding your place in the tribe, aka “humanity”
2023.06.06 18:46 fort_lipton Possible Separation Anxiety?
I got my pup (6 mo old, no clue on breed) 3 days ago from a rescue. Overall she seems to be doing okay, I left her home while I was at work yesterday and the only thing she touched was some cardboard. It would seem she may have slight separation anxiety and seems to have picked up on whining a bit while im gone (we don't know the full extent yet) which I'm working on, im doing the basics like leave fun stuff when I leave, don't come in unless she's quiet, and working on her exploring more instead of just sitting next to me. Issue is she also seems to have a thing of waiting right by the door for me, I'll put her outside and go in until she gets quiet again (which hasnt taken too long) so she learns whining doesn't do anything but when I'm trying to go inside she ignores her food to walk with me and sits outside the door till I come back out. Now I'm sorry if how I wrote that is confusing but basically I'm trying to figure out if her sitting outside the door is an issue I'm accidentally rewarding and need to work on as well or if it'll go away with time. Thanks for getting through all that and if you know anything that may help.
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2023.06.06 18:46 skilliard7 Are most creators treating Nebula as a "dumping ground"? I'm convinced it's not sustainable.
I've noticed most creators on the platform aren't putting in any effort to bring their viewers to Nebula or invest in it. Not only do they never mention Nebula on YouTube or Twitter, but they don't even put a link to Nebula in their descriptions on new videos or their about page.
Even worse, many of them even have Patreon exclusive content that is not available on Nebula. For these creators, Nebula often costs more than Patreon, but provides nothing more than YouTube does for free.
I think a lot of creators are treating Nebula as a platform to get paid to advertise their channel. The idea is because it's an exclusive platform, there isn't much competition, so it's much easier to secure new paying viewers than relying on the YouTube algorithm. So they bring nothing to the table in terms of new subscribers, but compete for a limited pool of revenue sharing.
The whole business model seems unsustainable to me. Nebula is spending huge sums of money($500k+ per month) to selectively recruit and sponsor new creators to promote the platform, that just neglect it and treat it as a dumping ground for videos the moment the sponsor money dries up, and then the subscribers nebula paid them to acquire just churn.
This strategy worked great when CuriosityStream was paying the bill, but when Nebula is, it's incredibly inefficient.
It just doesn't make sense to me considering there are creators that want to join Nebula and make it a priority, without the need for sponsorship to convince them, but instead the company is dumping money into new creators that neglect the platform.
And I worry for sustainability. Ever since CuriosityStream stopped their cross promotion from Nebula, subscriber growth has slowed down significantly despite lots of large new creators joining the platform and significant marketing expense.
Nebula has reported a net loss every year and is only kept afloat by CuriosityStream's massive semiannual equity investments, and these losses widened this year when they had to start covering their own marketing. Eventually CuriosityStream will stop investing new money.
I would argue the following:
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Even worse, many of them even have Patreon exclusive content that is not available on Nebula. For these creators, Nebula often costs more than Patreon, but provides nothing more than YouTube does for free.
I think a lot of creators are treating Nebula as a platform to get paid to advertise their channel. The idea is because it's an exclusive platform, there isn't much competition, so it's much easier to secure new paying viewers than relying on the YouTube algorithm. So they bring nothing to the table in terms of new subscribers, but compete for a limited pool of revenue sharing.
The whole business model seems unsustainable to me. Nebula is spending huge sums of money($500k+ per month) to selectively recruit and sponsor new creators to promote the platform, that just neglect it and treat it as a dumping ground for videos the moment the sponsor money dries up, and then the subscribers nebula paid them to acquire just churn.
This strategy worked great when CuriosityStream was paying the bill, but when Nebula is, it's incredibly inefficient.
It just doesn't make sense to me considering there are creators that want to join Nebula and make it a priority, without the need for sponsorship to convince them, but instead the company is dumping money into new creators that neglect the platform.
And I worry for sustainability. Ever since CuriosityStream stopped their cross promotion from Nebula, subscriber growth has slowed down significantly despite lots of large new creators joining the platform and significant marketing expense.
Nebula has reported a net loss every year and is only kept afloat by CuriosityStream's massive semiannual equity investments, and these losses widened this year when they had to start covering their own marketing. Eventually CuriosityStream will stop investing new money.
I would argue the following:
- CuriosityStream's upcoming price hike from $20 to $40 will lead to significant churn due to the majority of Nebula subscribers being on this bundle.
- The profit sharing structure needs to incentivize Nebula first and exclusives more, to reward creators for investing in the platform.
- The platform needs to stop relying on referrals and expensive sponsorships to grow & instead focus on creators that actually want to make the platform their premium platform. Right now there are very talented creators that want to join Nebula without needing a sponsorship, but can't.
- The money spent on expensive sponsorships could instead be spent on originals to reduce churn and provide value to the platform.
2023.06.06 18:46 ItsNotLikeCoffee Day 1: I'm Starting a Taper Again Today (30-40 GPD)
If you don't want to read this "back story" stuff I would still appreciate your opinion on my taper schedule and my comments in the bottom two paragraphs, thank you!
Hey guys, I frequently browse this sub for motivation, but finally decided that if I want to change I'm going to have to take action. About 4 years ago I was able to quit a year and a half habit by tapering for about 2 months. Well I fucked up and picked extract shots back up in December of 2021 and now my usage is at an all time high. Its been about a year and half that I've been using it and I'm frustrated, tired, and guilty. I want to quit for good this time and use this sub as a way to keep myself honest and use it as a place to get advice when things get rough.
The last time I tried to taper was about 6 months ago and I made it exactly 3 weeks before I had a rough day and used that as an excuse to take some. I know what the issue was and part of the reason why I failed was because I tried to lower my dosage too quickly. The difference this time is that I have been occasionally taking tianeptine and its made the kratom do basically nothing. It's made my tolerance even higher, caused me to spend more money on kratom, and if it wasn't so expensive I would probably be addicted to it as well.
I'm fed up and have thought really hard about my future and where I want to be in life. I'm tired of kratom taking away my time, my money, and even my memory. I'm not sure if I'm alone in this, but I feel as if kratom makes it harder for me to remember things. It's incredibly frustrating as I want to savor the time I have with my family and friends. The other main motivator is money. Kratom leaf is incredibly cheap compared to other substances out there, but sometimes I forgot to bring the kratom with me and I have to buy one of those expensive extract shots. Regardless of shots, leaf, extracts, it still adds up. I believe I could easily save $2,000 a year or more if I quit for good. The last main motivator is so I can be a better partner. I feel as if I cannot provide my wife the love she deserves while I'm on this. She does not know I am struggling with this addiction and I feel incredibly guilty. This is the primary reason I want to quit as she means the world to me. The guilt eats me up inside everyday, and this is the reason why I need to stop.
If you read all that I appreciate it a lot. I'm planning my taper plan this go around to be 90 days long. I encapsulate my kratom and each capsule contains about 700mg. I typically take about 60 capsules a day split evenly into 15 capsules doses. Typically the first dosage is taken at 6:00am-8:00am, the second at 12:00pm-2:00pm, the third at 5:00pm-7:00pm, and the fourth at 10:00pm-12:00am. Instead of taking the capsules 4 times a day I will split them up and take them 8 times a day. Initially I am going to cut 20% off of my daily amount used. This means tomorrow I will take 48 capsules (60x0.80= 48) and I am going to split them up as follows. 6:00am: 8 caps, 8:00am: 4 caps, 10:00am: 5 caps, 1:00pm: 5 caps, 4:00pm: 5 caps, 7:00pm: 5 caps, 9:00pm: 5 caps, 12:00pm: 11 caps.
I will be dosing heavier in the mornings and at night to counteract the long amount of time without kratom while sleeping. I will continue along with that plan by taking away as much as I comfortably can each day until I hit a plateau. Once I hit a plateau I am going to wait two or three days before dropping another capsule. When I do take away another capsule I will take it away from a time slot that I feel the most comfortable during. I made a spreadsheet for this that has a modest track to follow in the 90 days and places to log my usage. At the 90th day it has me taking 5 capsules and from there I should be able to jump off without any symptoms. If there's any suggestions you guys think I should make please let me know. Sorry for the huge wall of text, but I will be updating daily with not as lengthy posts. If anyone wants to talk or if anyone is willing to talk when we're struggling please send me a dm. Thank you.
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Hey guys, I frequently browse this sub for motivation, but finally decided that if I want to change I'm going to have to take action. About 4 years ago I was able to quit a year and a half habit by tapering for about 2 months. Well I fucked up and picked extract shots back up in December of 2021 and now my usage is at an all time high. Its been about a year and half that I've been using it and I'm frustrated, tired, and guilty. I want to quit for good this time and use this sub as a way to keep myself honest and use it as a place to get advice when things get rough.
The last time I tried to taper was about 6 months ago and I made it exactly 3 weeks before I had a rough day and used that as an excuse to take some. I know what the issue was and part of the reason why I failed was because I tried to lower my dosage too quickly. The difference this time is that I have been occasionally taking tianeptine and its made the kratom do basically nothing. It's made my tolerance even higher, caused me to spend more money on kratom, and if it wasn't so expensive I would probably be addicted to it as well.
I'm fed up and have thought really hard about my future and where I want to be in life. I'm tired of kratom taking away my time, my money, and even my memory. I'm not sure if I'm alone in this, but I feel as if kratom makes it harder for me to remember things. It's incredibly frustrating as I want to savor the time I have with my family and friends. The other main motivator is money. Kratom leaf is incredibly cheap compared to other substances out there, but sometimes I forgot to bring the kratom with me and I have to buy one of those expensive extract shots. Regardless of shots, leaf, extracts, it still adds up. I believe I could easily save $2,000 a year or more if I quit for good. The last main motivator is so I can be a better partner. I feel as if I cannot provide my wife the love she deserves while I'm on this. She does not know I am struggling with this addiction and I feel incredibly guilty. This is the primary reason I want to quit as she means the world to me. The guilt eats me up inside everyday, and this is the reason why I need to stop.
If you read all that I appreciate it a lot. I'm planning my taper plan this go around to be 90 days long. I encapsulate my kratom and each capsule contains about 700mg. I typically take about 60 capsules a day split evenly into 15 capsules doses. Typically the first dosage is taken at 6:00am-8:00am, the second at 12:00pm-2:00pm, the third at 5:00pm-7:00pm, and the fourth at 10:00pm-12:00am. Instead of taking the capsules 4 times a day I will split them up and take them 8 times a day. Initially I am going to cut 20% off of my daily amount used. This means tomorrow I will take 48 capsules (60x0.80= 48) and I am going to split them up as follows. 6:00am: 8 caps, 8:00am: 4 caps, 10:00am: 5 caps, 1:00pm: 5 caps, 4:00pm: 5 caps, 7:00pm: 5 caps, 9:00pm: 5 caps, 12:00pm: 11 caps.
I will be dosing heavier in the mornings and at night to counteract the long amount of time without kratom while sleeping. I will continue along with that plan by taking away as much as I comfortably can each day until I hit a plateau. Once I hit a plateau I am going to wait two or three days before dropping another capsule. When I do take away another capsule I will take it away from a time slot that I feel the most comfortable during. I made a spreadsheet for this that has a modest track to follow in the 90 days and places to log my usage. At the 90th day it has me taking 5 capsules and from there I should be able to jump off without any symptoms. If there's any suggestions you guys think I should make please let me know. Sorry for the huge wall of text, but I will be updating daily with not as lengthy posts. If anyone wants to talk or if anyone is willing to talk when we're struggling please send me a dm. Thank you.
2023.06.06 18:45 New_Character_4164 Kindred is so frustrating to play for me can you help me ?
Hello fellow kindred mains ! I'm kinda new to kindred (Mastery 5 only) and i really love the design of her kit , her lore and her design but she's really frustrating to play for me the reason being :
1: I feel like most of champs in the jungle have dashes which make it hard for me to kite them and i feel like i get obliterated once they're in range, i'm not even talking about shaco and khazix
2: Well , my kiting is horrible : It's so hard for me to move while shooting arrows and i almost always dash in the wrong direction after hitting the enemy
3: The marks : I'm never on the good scuttle early, always in the opposite side of the map when they spawn and even in low elo peoples love to contest my marks even the supports are clearing them
I'm getting really frustrated while playing kindred and league in general , i'm hardstuck bronze and i don't know how to climb in general but i really want to
So can you give me tips to learn how to kite and play kindred please ? :(
Here's my op.gg : https://www.op.gg/summoners/euw/Daletyr
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1: I feel like most of champs in the jungle have dashes which make it hard for me to kite them and i feel like i get obliterated once they're in range, i'm not even talking about shaco and khazix
2: Well , my kiting is horrible : It's so hard for me to move while shooting arrows and i almost always dash in the wrong direction after hitting the enemy
3: The marks : I'm never on the good scuttle early, always in the opposite side of the map when they spawn and even in low elo peoples love to contest my marks even the supports are clearing them
I'm getting really frustrated while playing kindred and league in general , i'm hardstuck bronze and i don't know how to climb in general but i really want to
So can you give me tips to learn how to kite and play kindred please ? :(
Here's my op.gg : https://www.op.gg/summoners/euw/Daletyr
2023.06.06 18:45 ALG_24 I have so many more questions than answers..
What did Cal see out the plane window when he said "it's all connected"? And what’s connected? Were the callings actually memories like they hypothesized? How and where and why did Fiona and Daly come back? How did Cal come back when he touched the tail fin and why did that age him 5 years? How was the black lightening thing connected to this? When Zeke survived his death date, why didn't he go back in time to when he originally died in the cave like the 828ers did? Why does Zeke not remember anything and how was he able to visit Michaela from the glow? How was Mackaela able to talk to Zeke when he was in the cave? How did Cal just appear in the airport without getting off the plane? What happened to Daly and why didn’t he come back off the plane like all the others who had died in that 5 years? Did the timeline they were in after they returned just end or is it some parallel timeline of existence? 11 people vanished on a plane and the police and NSA just let all the passengers leave? The finale was supposed to answer all the questions and I feel like all it did was ask more..
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2023.06.06 18:45 Spencemw Why is the war base results in the lower right corner?
 | The picture says it all. But ive spent time by mistake scouting a base that was already attacked. While holding the iPad or phone its easy to cover that corner with part of your hand. submitted by Spencemw to ClashOfClans [link] [comments] Or am I crazy 🤪 |
2023.06.06 18:45 Available_One8974 Is it customary for landlords to hire a professional cleaner between tenants?
 | I am livid with my landlords. I’ve asked prior to my walk through and move in date if the unit was going to be professionally cleaned or if I’ll have to hire one and they told me yes. During my walk through I noticed it was still filthy and I pointed out all the spots and the landlord reassured me that it was going to be clean when I moved in. submitted by Available_One8974 to Calgary [link] [comments] NOW… I’ve moved in and I’m putting away my pots and pans, dishes, groceries, and the place is absolutely filthy. (See attached pictures). I’m so frustrated with this whole situation and I don’t think I should be the one to hire a professional cleaner. We went back and forth over text all evening just for them to say they’ll come and clean it themselves at 5pm, after emphasizing that I want it professionally cleaned. |
2023.06.06 18:44 Ok-Statistician5544 Control Urges for 21 days and your brain get rewired and adapt to it - No more Urges
control these urges for the first 21 days straight and our brain gets rewired accordingly (psychological phenomenon)
As a psychology student. In order to control urges you need to remember some things although there is no way that our logical brain will interfere during urges because it is the emotional part of brain that is weak for people like us the only thing we can do is, trying to understand that, there are women who are far more beautiful and are in the most respectable positions and women you see in these videos are making you feel low to their standards and you are losing your self-respect you are slowly becoming a monkey who would never deserve a normal respectable women. Improve your self-esteem by listening to the voice of your mind make it loud. it will make you remember where you are now and what you lost. Try to be calm don't feel depressed or anything try to change your location to a public place immediately. The most important thing is try to get held of your mind to consider decisions coming only from logical brain.coin me if you want more info about nootropics supplements, hormonal effects and memory issues.
2023.06.06 18:44 NeighborhoodFew8265 Disappointed about EY internship program
(Burner account) I wanted to ask if anyone else is interning with EY this summer and is just absolutely disappointed? First, the program length gets cut down to be 6 weeks with one unpaid, so really 5. Then, they cancel our intern gifts and tell us that there are 'supply chain issues' instead. Now, they have told us that the annual Disney trip is cancelled. I've also been hearing that some service lines won't even work the full 5 weeks, but only 2 days of one week, making the full experience a little over a month.
All of this info has come wayyyyyy after our offer letters have been signed, and for a lot it was too late to find another internship. A complete lack of transparency is the thing that sealed the deal for me and my disappointment. I don't understand why they think this will work, or will make interns want to really sign a full time offer if they can do any better (which I honestly think they can).
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All of this info has come wayyyyyy after our offer letters have been signed, and for a lot it was too late to find another internship. A complete lack of transparency is the thing that sealed the deal for me and my disappointment. I don't understand why they think this will work, or will make interns want to really sign a full time offer if they can do any better (which I honestly think they can).
2023.06.06 18:44 JulienMaximeL Big Beach Brawl LTE Thread
 | "Big Beach Brawl" Limited Thymed Event submitted by JulienMaximeL to PlantsVSZombies [link] [comments] Summer is upon us but hot weather is already here, so enjoy those sunny days, from the beach while sipping a cold drink or from work dreaming of upcoming holidays. Enjoy this freshly new Limited Thymed Event featuring BWB Zombies. While navigating through all lvls, you'll face 3 (4) new zombies to add to your almanac: Ducky Tube zombies (basic, Conehead and Buckethead) and Fast Swimmer Be careful they've learnt how to move quicker in the water, and are taking a fast run to your house... Duration: from the 8th June to the 17th June 2023 Number of lvls: 15 Slogan: "Grab your Sunglasses and join the Big Beach Brawl!" Big Beach Brawl Part 1 Big Beach Brawl Part 2 Rewards: - On lvl 3: 2500 coins - On lvl 7: 5 SeaFlora seeds - On lvl 10: 3 Big Beach Brawl Pinatas - On lvl 15: 50 SeaFlora seeds Plants featured: Lily Pad, Tangle Kelp, SeafLora, Toadstool, Bowling Bulb, Ghost Pepper, Rotobaga, Imppear, Dartichoke, Pokra, Snow Pea, Buttercup, Guacodile, Banana Launcher Plants added along: Peashooter, Wall-nut, Draftodil *N.B*: *This event features Big Wave Beach zombies only with 3 new additions: Ducky Tube, Ducky Tube Conehead and Ducky Tube Buckethead zombies. Another kinda new zombie is also joining the rest of the crew: Fast Swimmer zombie, in water he moves faster than any existing zombie (except chicken). In all lvls all plants can be selected, which is kinda the only time. All lvls can be succeeded with adventure lvl 1 plants like the following strat: Sun-shroom/Moonflower, Lightning Reed, Iceberg Lettuce, Magnifying Grass, Chili Bean, Sun Bean, Chard Guard, Bowling Bulb*. **LEVEL 1: Classic lvl with 1 Pre-selected plant** Objective: Survive 2 waves Zombies: Pompadour (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead, Buckethead) Pre-selected plant: Lily Pad Features: - Tide Lane: between C4 and C5 - Lily Pads on C5-L1/3, C8-L4/5 - 1 Peashooter on C5-L3, 1 Wall-nut on C8-L4 Starting sun: 300 Plant food zombie: - 1st Ducky Tube zombie - 3rd basic Pompadour zombie - 2nd Ducky Tube Conehead - Last Pompadour before wave 2 - 1 Conehead on wave 2 Zombie Setup: - 1 basic Pompadour - 1 Ducky Tube basic + 1 basic Pompadour - 1 Ducky Tube zombie + Pompadour (1 basic, 1 Buckethead) - Wave 1: 1 Ducky Tube Conehead, 1 Flag zombie, 1 basic Pompadour - 3 basic Pompadours + 1 Ducky Tube Conehead - 4 basic Pompadours + 1 basic Ducky Tube - 2 basic Pompadours, Ducky Tube (1 basic, 1 Conehead) - Last wave: 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, Pompadour (5 basic, 2 Conehead), 1 Flag zombie **LEVEL 2: Classic lvl with 2 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive 3 waves Zombies: Pompadour basic, Bikini (basic, Conehead), Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead, Buckethead) Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Tangle Kelp Features: - Tide Lane: between C3 and C4 - Lily Pads on C4-L3/5, C5-L2, C6-L2/5, C8-L1/3 - 1 Wall-nut on C4-L3 Starting sun: 150 Plant food zombies: - 1st Pompadour after wave 1 - 1st Ducky Tube Conehead - 1 Bikini Conehead before wave 3 Zombie Setup: - 2 basic Pompadours, 1 basic Bikini - Wave 1: 2 basic Pompadours, 1 basic Bikini, 1 Flag zombie - 1 basic Pompadour, Bikini (1basic, 1 Conehead) - Ducky Tube (1 basic, 1 Conehead), 2 basic Bikinis - Wave 2: Ducky Tube (1 basic, 2 Coneheads), 4 basic Pompadours, 2 basic Bikinis - Ducky Tube (2 basic, 1 Conehead, 1 Buckethead), 2 basic Bikinis - Ducky Tube (1 basic, 2 Coneheads, 1 Buckethead), Bikini (1 basic, 1 Conehead) - Last wave: Ducky Tube (2 Bucketheads, 7 Coneheads), 4 basic Pompadour, Bikini (2 basic, 1 Conehead) **LEVEL 3: Pre-selection lvl** Objective: Survive 2 waves Zombies: Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead, Buckethead) Pre-selected plants: SeaFlora, Tangle Kelp Features: - Tide Lane: before C1, so water can come up until C1 - 2 SeaFloras on C3-L2, C7-L4 Starting sun: 825 Sun drop: 50sun every 2s Plant food zombie: - 3rd Ducky Tube - 3rd Conehead - 1 Conehead between waves 1 and 2 Zombie Setup: - 2 basic Ducky Tube - 2 basic Ducky Tube - 2 basic + 2 Coneheads Ducky Tube - 4 Coneheads Ducky Tube - Wave 1: 3 basic + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube, 1 Flag zombie - 3 basic + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube - 3 basic + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube - 2 Coneheads + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube - 1 basic + 1 Conehead + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube - 3 basic + 1 Conehead + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube - Last wave: 6 basic + 4 Coneheads + 4 Bucketheads Ducky Tube, 1 Flag zombie Note: - honestly, it's a pretty hard lvl even if you got a lvl 10 Tangle Kelp - the tide keeps coming until it reaches C1 just before wave 2 - pretty hard to choose between planting SeaFlora on C5/6 to guarantee an attack on 3 lanes or or on C1/2 to keep it long enough alive to kill zombies given the low damage it inflicts - SeaFlora has many bugs: sometimes she stops firing bubbles, when you use a plant food she doesn't throw anything, and if you do it while the tide is coming it doesn't always know how many bubbles it should fire so it shoots none. **LEVEL 4: Classic lvl with 2 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive 3 waves Zombies: Bikini (basic, Conehead), Mermaid Imp, Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Octo zombie Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Toadstool Features: - Tide Lane: between C3 and C4 - Lily Pads on C4-L2/4, C6-L1/4/5 Starting sun: 525 Plant food zombie: - 2nd Ducky Tube - 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead on wave 1 - 1 Octo zombie after wave 1 - 1 Bikini Conehead on wave 2 Zombie Setup: - 1 basic Ducky Tube - 1 basic Ducky Tube - 1 Octo zombie - Wave 1: 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 1 basic Bikini, 1 Flag zombie - 1 Ducky Tube Conehead, 1 basic Bikini - Low Tide: 2 Mermaid Imps on C5-L2/5 - 1 Octo zombie - 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead - Wave 2: 2 basic Ducky Tube, Bikini (3 basic, 1 Conehead), 1 Flag zombie - 1 basic Ducky Tube, 3 basic Bikinis, 1 Octo zombie - 2 basic + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube, 3 basic Bikinis - 4 basic Ducky Tube, 7 basic Bikinis, 1 Octo zombie - Last wave: Low Tide with 3 Mermaid Imps on C4-L1/3, C5-L4, 14 basic + 2 Bucketheads Ducky Tube, 10 basic Bikinis **LEVEL 5: Classic lvl with 3 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive 3 waves Zombies: Mermaid Imp, Pompadour Buckethead, Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Snorkel, Surfer, Deep Sea Garg Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Tangle Kelp, Bowling Bulb Features: - Tide Lane: between C2 and C3 - Lily Pads on C3-L1/3/5, C4-L2/4, C5-L1/3, C6-L4 - 1 Bowling Bulb on C3-L3 Starting sun: 650 Plant food zombie: - 2nd Ducky Tube - 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead after wave 1 - 1 Snorkel before wave 2 - 1 Surfer on wave 2 - 1 Snorkel before wave 3 Zombie Setup: - 2 Mermaid Imps, 1 basic Ducky Tube - 2 basic Ducky Tube - Wave 1: 1 Surfer, 2 Snorkels, 1 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Flag zombie - 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 2 Mermaid Imps, 1 Snorkel - 1 basic Ducky Tube, 2 Mermaid Imp, 3 Snorkels - Wave 2: 2 Surfers, Snorkels, 2 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Flag zombie - Low Tide: 2 Bucketheads on C5-L4 and C6-L2, 4 Mermaid Imps on C5-L4, C6-L1/2/5 - 2 basic + 1 Conehead + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube, 1 Snorkel - 1 Deep Sea Garg, 2 Snorkels - Last wave: 2 Surfers, 4 basic + 1 Buckethead Ducky Tube, 4 Snorkels, 1 Flag zombie **LEVEL 6: Classic lvl with 3 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive 2 waves Zombies: Bikini (Conehead, Buckethead), Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead), Surfer, Octo zombie, Fast Swimmer zombie (basic Browncoat) Pre-selected plants: Ghost Pepper, Rotobaga, Lily Pad Features: - Tide Lane: before C1 so the whole board can be submerged. - At the beginning the whole board is submerged by water. - Lily Pads: 5 on C1, 1 on C3-L2, C4-L4, 2 on C7-L1/5 - 1 Rotobaga on C5-L3 - 2 Peashooters on C7-L1/5 Starting sun: 400 Plant food zombie: - 1 Fast Swimmer as 2nd zombie - 1 basic Ducky Tube after the 1st Low Tide - 1 basic Ducky Tube on wave 1 - 1 Fast Swimmer between waves 1 and 2 - 1 basic Ducky Tube just before wave 2 - 1 Ducky Tube Conehead on wave 2 Zombie Setup: - 1 Octo zombie - 1 Fast Swimmer on L5 + 1 basic Ducky Tube - Low Tide (C3): 1 Octo zombie on C5-L5 - 2 basic Ducky Tube - Wave 1: 7 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Flag zombie - 2 Surfers, 2 basic Ducky Tube - 1 Fast Swimmer on L1 + 3 basic Ducky Tube - Low Tide (C3): 2 Bikini Coneheads on C5-L1, C6-L3 - 3 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Bikini Buckethead - High Tide - Last wave: 9 basic Ducky Tube, 2 Ducky Tube Coneheads, 2 Bikini Coneheads, 1 Flag zombie Note: quite easy **LEVEL 7: Classic lvl with 2 Pre-selected plants** Objectives: Survive 3 waves Zombies: Bikini (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Fast Swimmer, Octo zombie, Fisherman Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Tangle Kelp Features: - Tide Lane: between C3 and C4 - Lily Pads on C4-L4, C5-L2, C7-L1/3, C8-L5 - 2 Guacodiles on C4-L2/4 Starting sun: 625 Plant food zombie: - 1 Snorkel as 3rd zombie - 1 Bikini Conehead just after wave 1 - 1 basic Bikini before wave 2 - 1 basic Ducky Tube on wave 2 - 2 basic Bikinis + 1 Buckethead before wave 3 Zombie Setup: - 1 Fisherman on L2 - 1 Fisherman on L5 - 1 Snorkel - Wave 1: 2 basic Bikinis, 1 Flag zombie - 2 Bikini Coneheads - 1 Fisherman on L4, 2 Ducky Tube Coneheads, Bikini (1 Conehead, 1 basic) - Wave 2: 3 basic Ducky Tube, 8 basic Bikini, 1 Flag zombie - Low Tide: 3 Bikini Coneheads on C5-L2, C7-L1, C8-L4 - 1 Fast Swimmer on L3 + 4 basic Bikinis - Bikini (6 basic + 1 Buckethead) - Last wave: 1 Fisherman on L5, 2 Octo zombies, Ducky Tube (2 Coneheads, 1 Buckethead), 1 Flag zombie **LEVEL 8: Classic lvl with 3 Pre-selected plants** Objectives: - Survive 2 waves - Don't plant on Dave's mold colonies Zombies: Pompadour (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Ducky Tube (basic, Buckethead), Surfer, Fisherman, Deep Sea Garg Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Imppear, Dartichoke Features: - Dave's mold colonies all over C1 and C2 - Tide Lane: between C3 and C4 - Lily Pads on C4-L2/3/4/5, C5-L1/5, C6-L3, C7-L2/4 - 1 Dartichoke on C4-L3 - 1 Imppear on C6-L3 Starting sun: 1050 Plant Food zombie: - 1 basic Pompadour at the beginning - 1 basic Ducky Tube + 1 Fisherman just before wave 1 - 1 Fisherman just after wave 1 - 1 Pompadour Conehead between waves 1 and 2 - 1 basic Ducky Tube just before wave 2 Zombie Setup: - 1 Fisherman + 1 basic Ducky Tube on L3 - 1 basic Ducky Tube, 1 basic Pompadour - 1 basic Ducky Tube, 2 basic Pompadours - 1 Fisherman on L5, 1 basic Ducky Tube - Wave 1: 2 Surfers, 5 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Flag zombie - 1 Fisherman on L2, 2 basic Ducky Tube - 2 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Pompadour Buckethead - 2 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Pompadour Conehead - 3 basic Ducky Tube1 Fisherman on L4 - Last wave: Low Tide with 1 Deep Sea Garg on C6-L2, 2 Surfers on C7-L3/5, 8 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 1 basic Pompadour, 1 Flag zombie Note: unfortunately the Garg isn't surrounded by any zombies so you can defeat him pretty easily **LEVEL 9: Classic lvl with 1 Pre-selected plant** Objectives: - Survive 2 waves - Protect the endangered plants Zombies: basic Pompadour, Bikini Conehead, Ducky Tube (basic, Buckethead), Mermaid Imp, Snorkel, Surfer, Octo zombie, Deep Sea Garg Pre-selected plant: Lily Pad Features: - Tide Lane: between C3 and C4 - Lily Pads on C4-L2/3/4, C6-L4, C7-L1/5, C8-L3 - 3 Banana Launchers as endangered plants on C4-L2/3/4 Starting sun: 550 Plant food zombie: - 1 Bikini Conehead before wave 1 - 1 Surfer just after wave 1 Zombie Setup: - 5 Snorkels on L2/3/4 (1-3-1) - 2 Bikini Coneheads - Low Tide: 1 Octo zombie on C7-L5 - Wave 1: Ducky Tube (2 basic, 1 Buckethead), 2 basic Pompadours, 1 Flag zombie - 2 Surfers, 1 basic Pompadour - Ducky Tube (2 basic, 1 Buckethead), 2 basic Pompadours - 2 basic Ducky Tube, 2 Snorkels, 2 basic Pompadours - Last wave: Low Tide with 1 Deep Sea Garg on C7-L2; 7 basic Pompadours, 4 Mermaid Imps, 1 Flag zombie Note: such an easy lvl particularly the last wave which is a joke, as it features only basic zombies if we don't consider the Garg on Low Tide **LEVEL 10: Classic lvl with 3 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive waves Zombies: basic Ducky Tube, Snorkel, Surfer Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Pokra, Tangle Kelp Features: - Tide Lane: between C2 and C3 - 1 Pokra on C2-L3 - 2 Tangle Kelps on C7-L2, C8-L4 Starting sun: 475 Plant food zombie: - 2nd Surfer - 1 Surfer + 1 basic Ducky Tube between waves 1 and 2 - 1 Surfer + 1 basic Ducky Tube between waves 2 and 3 Zombie Setup: - 1 Surfer - 1 Surfer - Wave 1: 1 Surfer, 1 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Flag zombie - 2 Surfers, 1 Snorkel - 2 Surfers, 1 Snorkel, 1 basic Ducky Tube - Wave 2: 3 Surfers, 3 basic Ducky Tube, 2 Snorkels, 1 Flag zombie - 3 Surfers, 1 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Snorkel - 3 Surfers, 1 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Snorkel - Last wave: 3 Surfers, 5 basic Ducky Tube, 3 Snorkels, 1 Flag zombie Note: really needs to add more zombies **LEVEL 11: Classic lvl with 2 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive 3 waves Zombies: basic Pompadour and Bikini, Mermaid Imp, basic Ducky Tube, Deep Sea Garg Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Snow Pea Features: Tide Lane: between C3 and C4 Starting sun: 700 Plant food zombie: - 2 basic Pompadours just before wave 1 -1 basic Ducky Tube just before wave 2 - 1 basic Ducky Tube on wave 2 - 1 basic Pompadour before wave 3 Zombie Setup: - 1 Mermaid Imp - 1 basic Ducky Tube + 1 Mermaid Imp - 1 basic Pompadour + 1 basic Ducky Tube + 1 Mermaid Imp - 2 basic Pompadour + 1 basic Ducky Tube + 1 Mermaid Imp - Wave 1: Low Tide with 2 basic Bikinis on C6-L4/5; 4 basic Ducky Tube, 5 basic Pompadours, 1 Mermaid Imp, 1 Flag zombie - 2 basic Ducky Tube + 2 basic Pompadours + 1 Mermaid Imp - 4 basic Ducky Tube + 1 Mermaid Imp - 6 basic Pompadours + 1 basic Ducky Tube + 1 Mermaid Imp - 3 basic Ducky Tube + 2 basic Pompadours + 1 Mermaid Imp - Wave 2: Low Tide with 4 basic Bikinis on L2-C5/6, L4-C5/6; 2 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Mermaid Imp, 1 basic Pompadour, 1 Deep Sea Garg, 1 Flag zombie - 4 basic Ducky Tube + 3 basic Pompadours + 1 Mermaid Imp - 4 basic Ducky Tube + 2 basic Pompadours - 2 basic Ducky Tube + 1 Mermaid Imp - 6 basic Ducky Tube + 5 basic Pompadours + 1 Mermaid Imp - 4 basic Ducky Tube + 6 basic Pompadours + 1 Mermaid Imp - Last wave: 5 basic Ducky Tube, 9 basic Pompadours, 1 Mermaid Imp, 1 Deep Sea Garg, 1 Flag zombie **LEVEL 12: Classic lvl with 1 Pre-selected plant** Objectives: - Survive 4 waves - Protect the endangered plants Zombies: Bikini + Pompadour + Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Mermaid Imp, Surfer, Octo zombie, Fisherman, Deep Sea Garg Pre-selected plant: Lily Pad Features: - Tide Lane: between C2 and C3 - Lily Pads on C3-L1, C4-L3, C5-L2/4 - 5 Draftodils as endangered plants on C1 Starting sun: 800 Plant food zombie: - 2 basic Ducky Tube as 2nd & 3rd zombies - 1 Fisherman just after wave 1 - 1 basic Pompadour right before wave 3 Zombie Setup: - 1 basic Ducky Tube - 1 basic Ducky Tube - 1 basic Ducky Tube - Wave 1: Low Tide with 2 basic Bikinis on C5-L1, C7-L3, 1 basic Pompadour on C6-L2, 1 Mermaid Imp on C7-L4; 2 basic Pompadours + 1 basic Ducky Tube + 1 Flag zombie - 1 Fisherman, 1 Mermaid Imp - 1 basic Ducky Tube, 1 basic Pompadour - 1 basic Ducky Tube - Wave 2: 1 basic Ducky Tube + 2 basic Pompadours + 1 Mermaid Imp + 1 Flag zombie - 1 Mermaid Imp, 1 basic Pompadour, 1 basic Ducky Tube - Low Tide: 2 Surfers on C6-L1/3, 3 Mermaid Imps on C6-L2/3, C8-L5, 1 Octo zombie on C7-L3, 1 Fisherman on L4 - 2 Mermaid Imps, 2 Surfers, 2 basic Pompadours - Wave 3: 3 Surfers + 1 Flag zombie - Low Tide: 3 Mermaid Imps on C6-L1/4, C7-L2, 1 Deep Sea Garg on C8-L5, 1 Fisherman on L2 - 1 Mermaid Imp, 1 basic Pompadour - 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 1 Ducky Tube Conehead, 2 Mermaid Imps, 1 basic Pompadour - 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 2 basic Pompadours, 1 Mermaid Imp, 1 Fisherman on L3 and on L4 - Last wave: 2 Surfers, 2 Mermaid Imps, 2 Bikini Bucketheads, 1 Bikini Conehead, 1 Pompadour Pompadour, 1 Flag zombie Note: quite easy as zombies come in small groups **LEVEL 13: Classic lvl with 2 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive 2 waves Zombies: Bikini + Pompadour (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Ducky Tube Buckethead Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Toadstool Features: Tide Lane between C4 and C5 Starting sun: 400 Plant food zombie: - 1 Pompadour Conehead just before wave 1 - 1 Pompadour Conehead just after wave 1 - 1 Bikini Buckethead before wave 2 Zombie Setup: - 1 basic Bikini - 2 Pompadour Coneheads - 1 Pompadour Conehead, 2 basic Pompadours, 1 Bikini Conehead - Wave 1: 1 Pompadour Buckethead, 1 Flag zombie - 4 Pompadour Coneheads + 2 basic Pompadour - 1 Pompadour Buckethead, 2 Pompadour Coneheads - 4 Bikini Bucketheads, 1 basic Bikini - Last wave: 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 3 Pompadour Bucketheads, 2 Pompadour Coneheads, 1 Flag zombie Note: wave 1 is really a joke, there's only 2 zombies **LEVEL 14: Classic lvl with 3 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive 3 waves Zombies: Pompadour (basic, Conehead), Ducky Tube (basic, Conehead, Buckethead), Snorkel, Surfer, Octo zombie Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Buttercup, Guacodile Features: - Tide Lane: between C2 and C3 - Lily Pads on C3-L1/3/5, C4-L2/4 Starting sun: 450 Plant food zombie: - 1 basic Pompadour and 1 Snorkel just after wave 1 - 1 Pompadour Conehead and 1 Snorkel just before wave 3 Zombie Setup: - 1 basic Ducky Tube - 2 basic Pompadours - Wave 1: 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 1 Snorkel, 1 Flag zombie - 1 basic Pompadour, 1 Pompadour Conehead - 1 Surfer, 5 Snorkels - Wave 2: 3 Snorkels, 2 Ducky Tube Coneheads, 1 Flag zombie - 3 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Ducky Tube Conehead, 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 1 Snorkel - 2 basic Pompadours, 2 Pompadours Coneheads, 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead, 1 Snorkel - Last wave: 3 Snorkels, 1 Pompadour Conehead, 1 Octo zombie, 1 Flag zombie Note: imo Buttercup is pretty useless in BWB (not like it was better in other worlds particularly in PP) **LEVEL 15: Classic lvl with 4 Pre-selected plants** Objective: Survive 3 waves Zombies: All BWB zombies + All Ducky Tube + Fast Swimmer Pre-selected plants: Lily Pad, Tangle Kelp, Guacodile, Banana Launcher Features: - Tide Lane: before C1 so the whole board can be submerged - At the beginning the whole board is submerged by water - Lily Pads on C1-L2/3, C2-L4, C3-L2, C6-L2/4, C7-L1, C8-L5 Starting sun: 1050 Plant food zombie: - 1 Pompadour Buckethead just before wave 1 - 1 basic Ducky Tube just after wave 1 - 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead before wave 2 - 1 Snorkel just before wave 2 - 1 basic Bikini on wave 2 - 1 Bikini Buckethead between waves 2 and 3 - 1 basic Ducky Tube and 1 Surfer just before wave 3 Zombie Setup: - 2 basic Pompadours - 2 basic Pompadours - 1 basic Pompadour, 1 Pompadour Conehead - 1 Pompadour Buckethead - Wave 1: Low Tide with 1 Octo zombie on C6-L2; 1 basic Pompadour, 1 Flag zombie - 1 basic Ducky Tube - 1 Fast Swimmer on L1, 2 basic Ducky Tube - 1 Fast Swimmer on L2, 1 Ducky Tube Conehead - 2 Fast Swimmers (L1-L3), 1 Ducky Tube Buckethead - Low Tide with 2 Mermaid Imps on C6-L4, C7-L1 - 1 Fast Swimmer on L2, 1 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Snorkel - 1 Fisherman on L1, 2 Fast Swimmers (L3-L4), 1 Snorkel - Wave 2: 2 Fast Swimmers (L2-L3), 1 Surfer, 1 Snorkel, 1 basic Bikini, 1 Flag zombie - 1 Fast Swimmer on L4, 1 Fisherman on L4, 2 Snorkels - 2 Fast Swimmers (L2-L3), 2 Snorkels, 1 Bikini Conehead, - 1 Fast Swimmer on L1, 3 Snorkels, 1 Bikini Buckethead - Low Tide: 1 Deep Sea Garg on C4-L1 - 1 Fast Swimmer on L4, 3 Snorkels, 1 basic Bikini - 1 Fisherman on L2, 1 Surfer, 1 Fast Swimmer on L5 - 1 Surfer, 1 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Snorkel - Last wave: Low Tide with 1 Deep Sea Garg on C7-L4; 3 Fast Swimmers (L1-L3-L4), 3 Snorkels, 2 basic Ducky Tube, 1 Octo zombie, 1 Flag zombie Note: except the Garg appearing on C4 which really was a surprise, the rest is pretty easy. P.S: - so apart from it being very easy, this new Thymed Event was kinda fun, it's been a long time since we got exclusive BWB lvls and this time with those 3 (4 with Fast Swimmer) new zombies. Actually, this event is the hardest of all thymed events, because of the zombies it features and also the lvl 3 which is a bit of a struggle if you don't have a high lvl Tangle Kelp - could be a great improvement if some of these lvls were added to Penny's Pursuit to implement 'new' lvls and especially BWB ones. - in the same general idea, could be nice if Popcap could add to Thymed Events, the same difficulty chooser option than in Penny's Pursuit, and therefore increase the overall difficulty. - I'll see you in a few weeks for the classic Summer Nights event |
2023.06.06 18:44 Equivalent-Lie2565 Dealing with self image issues in WLW relationship
I came out about a year ago and now I’m in my first serious lesbian relationship. I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a few months and I am really happy, we’re doing really well in most aspects but I’ve been struggling with self image and don’t know what to do.
I’ve always struggled with self esteem and my body in general and I think that was part of the reason it took me 23 years to realize I was gay, looking at other women almost always made compare myself and I did not have room to explore attraction or deeper feelings because of that.
When I met my girlfriend, I had already been going to therapy and working through those issues and I genuinely felt/feel better but I still have bad days.
The first time her and I tried to have sex I freaked out when I saw her naked and could not stop comparing myself to her, this obviously didn’t work out and it took a very long time for us to try again. As of now we’re not really struggling in that regard but sometimes I still feel bad about the way I look. It doesn’t really happen during intimacy but it comes up often.
For example, we went shopping a few days ago and it made me feel physically ill to see how small the things she was trying on were in comparison to mine. Shes like a size 2/4 and I’m a size 16.
One day she had me look through some stuff she was giving away and when I realized how tiny her shorts and jeans were I seriously felt like shit. And I don’t think it’s fair to her that I feel like this because she has never once said something negative about my body or my weight, she compliments me often and I genuinely feel like she finds me attractive but some days it’s just difficult.
I have always been a bigger girl and it’s always bothered me, it’s always been a problem. I’ve tried dieting and going to the gym before and it takes a huge toll on my mental health so what I do now is just try to eat healthy without obsessing about it and that has worked so far so that I don’t start spiraling.
I know how I get when my self image issues get bad and that’s something I don’t want to put my partner through. I don’t really want to talk to her about this because it’s a lot and it’s not her fault. It’s just hard to feel like she’ll never truly understand my struggle with fat shaming and similar things when she’s quite literally the beauty standard.
I’ve been with other women before and even if those kinds of thoughts have crossed my mind they weren’t as strong as they are with her. I can’t help but feel like I’m not attractive enough for her and it’s not that I have a fear she’ll leave me because of something like that (I highly doubt it, she’s not a shallow person) but I do feel like this is putting some stress on the relationship on my end and it’s noticeable sometimes. It feels extremely unfair to her and I don’t know if communicating this is a good idea or not.
In the past whenever we’ve discussed weight she’s said she’s okay with whatever I look like as long as I am comfortable. But that doesn’t make me feel any better. I don’t think she’s lying but being that neutral about it is somehow the opposite of reassuring. It feels like it’s too detached or something.
Anyway all I’m asking for is what should I do in this situation? Should I tell her how I feel so she can help me cope with it or do I solve it on my own?
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I’ve always struggled with self esteem and my body in general and I think that was part of the reason it took me 23 years to realize I was gay, looking at other women almost always made compare myself and I did not have room to explore attraction or deeper feelings because of that.
When I met my girlfriend, I had already been going to therapy and working through those issues and I genuinely felt/feel better but I still have bad days.
The first time her and I tried to have sex I freaked out when I saw her naked and could not stop comparing myself to her, this obviously didn’t work out and it took a very long time for us to try again. As of now we’re not really struggling in that regard but sometimes I still feel bad about the way I look. It doesn’t really happen during intimacy but it comes up often.
For example, we went shopping a few days ago and it made me feel physically ill to see how small the things she was trying on were in comparison to mine. Shes like a size 2/4 and I’m a size 16.
One day she had me look through some stuff she was giving away and when I realized how tiny her shorts and jeans were I seriously felt like shit. And I don’t think it’s fair to her that I feel like this because she has never once said something negative about my body or my weight, she compliments me often and I genuinely feel like she finds me attractive but some days it’s just difficult.
I have always been a bigger girl and it’s always bothered me, it’s always been a problem. I’ve tried dieting and going to the gym before and it takes a huge toll on my mental health so what I do now is just try to eat healthy without obsessing about it and that has worked so far so that I don’t start spiraling.
I know how I get when my self image issues get bad and that’s something I don’t want to put my partner through. I don’t really want to talk to her about this because it’s a lot and it’s not her fault. It’s just hard to feel like she’ll never truly understand my struggle with fat shaming and similar things when she’s quite literally the beauty standard.
I’ve been with other women before and even if those kinds of thoughts have crossed my mind they weren’t as strong as they are with her. I can’t help but feel like I’m not attractive enough for her and it’s not that I have a fear she’ll leave me because of something like that (I highly doubt it, she’s not a shallow person) but I do feel like this is putting some stress on the relationship on my end and it’s noticeable sometimes. It feels extremely unfair to her and I don’t know if communicating this is a good idea or not.
In the past whenever we’ve discussed weight she’s said she’s okay with whatever I look like as long as I am comfortable. But that doesn’t make me feel any better. I don’t think she’s lying but being that neutral about it is somehow the opposite of reassuring. It feels like it’s too detached or something.
Anyway all I’m asking for is what should I do in this situation? Should I tell her how I feel so she can help me cope with it or do I solve it on my own?